Several years ago, a man and woman, who we will call Joe and Mary, were rehearsing a scene in my theatre (Ionica Theatre) in Times Sq. It was your typical courting scene … man trying to date a woman, with the woman very interested but slightly playing hard to get. The scene went on for about five or so minutes at minimal success.
After they finished, I asked what I always ask: ”What was your process?”
Joe and Mary looked at each other, with Joe nodding for Mary to go first. Mary started to talk: “I worked for my college boyfriend. I used Sense Memory, Endowments and Evocative Words, and I also worked for a sexy skirt I wear when I’m in that party mood because it makes me feel sexy. I worked for that skirt using two Choice Approaches: Sense Memory, and Objects That Come Into Contact With The Body.”
I just looked at her and then looked at Joe. ”I worked for my ex. At first I was using Sense Memory, then I went to Sensory Suggestion because I needed to be seduced in a specific way that she, my ex, would do so well just by the way she would look at me and fix her hair.”
I looked at both of them … and just asked Joe, “Do you find Mary attractive?”
Joe tuned red. “Mary?”
“Yes, Mary, who else are you working with?”
Embarrassed, Joe just looked down at the floor, making sure he was making no eye contact with anyone in the theatre, especially Mary. “Um, yes.”
The class laughed.
“Mary, do you find Joe attractive?”
Mary also turned red. ”Yes. … I mean yes … uh uh. Yeah.”
Looking back at Joe, “Would you like to go out with Mary?”
“Anthony!” he replied.
“I’m just asking you: If you could, would you like to entertain the idea?”
“Sure.”
The class laughed again. Mary tried to hide. ”Mary, don’t hide. Do you find Joe sexually attractive?”
“This is horrible. How can you…? Yes. Okay? God, are you trying to hook us up or something?”
“Well, for the next five minutes when you do this scene, yes. Joe, try to ask Mary out on a date in the hopes and prayers that, maybe, if you’re lucky you can get her to go to bed with you. Mary, Joe is going to try date you … actually, he’s going to try to get you to go to bed with him. [The class laughed again.] Okay guys, forget about the scene for now, just court each other. The stimuli is directly in front of you … don’t create it, just react to it.”
Quick qualifier: When I speak this way in class, everyone knows the idea is to not actually have sex with, kill, rob, stab, or punch the other person. The goal is to create the need and desire to do so.
So, back to the scene: It was a horribly awkward but authentic and honest courting moment. It was very exciting to watch … the stakes were very high. So much could be lost. It was wonderful … simply wonderful.
At one point I said to the actors, “Now just go back into the scene and don’t change a thing … not a thing,” and they started the lines of the scene with a real sense of wanting each other, learning about each other, caring about each other. Oh, and they were listening to every nuance and with great courage and risk. It was one of the best courting scenes I’ve scene in a very long time.
Now, the question is why does all this happen? It happens for two main reasons: The first is bad training. Somewhere, somehow, someplace actors are being taught to “Be the character” and try to date the other “character” … which when you think about it, it makes absolutely no sense because you are totally denying reality. No, let me correct myself: you’re not denying reality; you’re putting a mountain in front of reality. The second main reason is that, there are times actors really do not want to expose themselves in such a raw, honest way. It hurts a lot more when you’re rejected and it feels more “professional” … (I don’t know exactly why I just put quotes around professional but it feels right) because you’re applying your CRAFT! That’s nonsense … that’s not craft, that’s hiding from truth. All these Choice Approaches Mary and Joe talked about are wonderful and great when what’s in front of you is giving you 2 cents out of your dollar.
When in doubt, keep it simple. Use as much as you can with what’s in front of you. Most of the time the answer is directly in front of your nose … as long as know to open your eyes, look, listen, and receive.
AVB
Anthony Vincent Bova interviews Michael Kaup who has been studying at the Bova Actors Workshop for almost 3 years. Michael is one of the founding members of the Plimoth Players, an exciting new Shakespeare Company that is making a difference in our community … and more importantly with children.
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Interview @ Bova Actors Workshop
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Michael is my boy. I’ve learned a lot from him and will continue to do so. It’s always wonderful to work with an actor who’s very present and very available.
Anthony Vincent Bova, interviews Luca Pierucci, an actor at the Bova Actors Workshop on his latest film, The Place Beyond the Pines.
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The Place Beyond The Pines IMDB
Interview @ BAW
Hey Luca hey Anthony, congratulations to both of you! Anthony for one of your students getting such a great role and Luca for landing it! You guys are the best, I loved the interview by the way, I miss you both.
Best,
Alex
Great Job Luca! Living the life, that’s awesome!
Hey Anthony, Hey Luca–I am so thrilled to see you doing these video blogs and I am so happy that Luca is doing his thing and the world is finally going to get a chance to see how talented he is! Very very cool–joyful news! Love to you both…
I am well, just got engaged, life is good!
xo,
Martha
hello
Congratulations, Luca. It inspires us all to keep plugging away.
I , regretfully, am posting today about the loss of two parents of actors at the Bova Actors Workshop.
On November 26th, 2011 David Glick’s mother, Judi Glick, passed away. Soon thereafter, On Dec 2nd, 2011 Margaret O’Sullivan’s father, Michael O’Sullivan passed. We have been blessed to have David and Margaret as actors at the Bova Actors Workshop for several years.
I never had the honor of meeting Mrs. Glick or Mr. O’Sullivan. I wish I had. I do know that both must have been magnificent people to have had a part in shaping the lives of Margaret and David – both of whom are individuals of character, integrity, sincerity, talent and loyalty. On a personal and professional note – I am so deeply proud to have them associated with my school … they make what I do and who I am better.
So, I thank Mr. O’Sullivan for the influence he has had and continues to have on his daughter, Margaret and the rest of her family … and I thank Mrs. Glick for the influence she has had and continues to have on her son, David and the rest of his family. If you know David and Margaret you know exactly what I’m talking about.
We are profoundly saddened by this loss. Mrs. Glick and Mr. O’Sullivan remain present in our lives, though, because of the love that shines through their children, David Glick and Margaret O’Sullivan.
Our prayers go out to the O’Sullivan and Glick Families.
I am deeply sorry for these losses. David and Margaret both I met at the Bova workshop and have been honored with Margaret friendship since then. For sure part of the fine sensibility, sense of humor and kindness in Margaret are coming from her father,who, I didn’t met, but she painted so vividly in the obituary published in a SF local newspaper. David is also a remarkable person, great actor and I am proud of had been his classmate. I invited him for my birthday party once and I remember he told me that was his mother’s birthday also so, I can imagine a couple of things about a woman born the same day as I did. Both, Margaret and David, I embrace you both and pray for your father an mother.
I’m deeply saddened to hear of David’s and Margaret’s losses. They’ve both been inspirational to me as senior students. I speak for all of Anthony’s students in extending condolence and looking forward to welcoming them with love and support back to class.
Sending big love and strength to you both!
Eric Potempa shares a few words of what he has learned after finishing his first Cycle (8 weeks) at the Bova Actors Workshop.
AVB–I have to tell you, this kind of testimony to the work makes me feel so empowered and encouraged. There is no doubt that I use to work exactly like Mary and Joe (it’s so easy when you’ve been trained as an “academic” actor, if that makes sense, with nothing but your intentions and objectives and action verbs to make you feel successful and grounded.) I use to think that I was doing “good acting” before I experienced the Eric Morris System, but really I was separating and cutting myself off more and more from my work…how sad that I didn’t know to include myself, permit my inner feelings, accept what’s really going on deep down inside of me and what’s in front of me, and allow the “how do I feel”s to be what really get me there, even in times when I’m not just on stage (because asking “how do I REALLY feel” in those awkward, difficult moments of every day life is the key to learning more about yourself (i.e. the “so-called-character.”) It’s honest, it’s the truth of the moment, and it’s me. I’m so happy for this gift that Eric gave us…this total approach to acting. It’s still hard to not go back to my old acting habits I relied so heavily on during my college years; but the more I practice this work, the more I see the light at the end of the tunnel. For some reason I really connected with this story about being “trapped” as someone who feels uncomfortable letting reality in, and feeling unworthy and scared to let the real “me” be the life source for my work. It seems like night and day when I think about how I use to approach acting and now, The Eric Morris has saved my life, not to sound cliche, but it’s true. It’s been 1 year and 2 months since my first weekend workshop with you in Minneapolis, MN and I can’t imagine not having the freedom that I have today, and the real courage that comes from this work that we do. I just want to thank you for posting this story. Please post more if you can…I love hearing them! I hope others can be inspired and challenged as I have to dig deep. Thank you, thank you, Anthony!
-Claire
You’re Welcome! Thanks for the kind words … and I’m happy that The Work has had a profound meaning in your life. It’s what happens when you dedicate your life … in Eric’s case 50 years to training actors how not to act … The journey continues …